Ahh the power of film.

Consider the film "He's just not that into you" as an ode to dumb females everywhere.

Girls will all tell each other "no, no, he's soooooo down for you, just wait" and then they'll wait, and wait, and nothing'll ever happen. We all think we're being helpful, but really, we're only getting each others hopes up.

What I guess I'm trying to say is that girls, as helpful as they may be sometimes, are absolutely clueless. We have no idea what boys are thinking, or why they do (or don't do) what they do. We just have to deal. Boys will flake and fuck up as much as they like, and really, as a female, the only thing any of us can do is read into it and hope that we're not being totally stupid.

Really, we're all screwed.